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Simple truths of love
Love is the order of the universe and we are its atoms.
It's the ocean and we are its drops …
Through love the skies are bright;
Without love even suns and moons are eclipsed
As long as people are, it's never long before love and relationships – Their problems and confusions, their bliss and beauty – is discussed.
Love is so essential to us as air, a force that moves us all. It determines who we are, we are, what we can achieve and, through this, how the world will evolve. You can even determine the time in which we live. policy advisers to the government now claim that the only strong predictor of whether an individual will be alive in 10 years is his answer now to the question: "Anybody I love you?"
Psychologists have found links between love and self-esteem, mental, emotional and physical, and the absence of stress and anxiety. Rather sad, the working with Romanian orphans have also found that children who are denied love can develop a "virtual black hole" where the emotional centers the brain should be. Because of this, can never be "fully human."
Studies like these show the importance of love. And yet, for so many questions remain unanswered. How many of us can say, for example, what love really is, or how to find it, make it possible, and learn so that can nourish and enrich our souls? How can we make our relationships work for them – and we – are healthy, happy and everything?
These are questions that scientists can not answer. For that we need a teacher who can teach us the simple truths of love and guide us in the way of the heart.
RUMI: THE MASTER OF LOVE FOR SIMPLE TRUTHS
This year marks the 800th anniversary of one of those Master. Sufi mystic, Jalaluddin Rumi was born on 29 September 1207 in eastern Persia. As a child he gained a reputation as a gifted spiritual teacher and came to establish the Sufi order of whirling dervishes known as The Way of the Master.
Throughout his life of Rumi composed thousands of verses of mystical love poetry, messages of which concern the notion of tahweed (unit), where, through self-love, we become one with "the Beloved": the divine spirit of love within us all. For Rumi, all we are divine and there is no problem we can tackle what has no solution, no question we can ask not to have an answer, as long as we remember who and what we are. What, after all, it is impossible for God? And the essence of God is love.
To love well, therefore, may be our most important task as human spiritual beings, because only thus can we overcome our difficulties and distractions, and reconnect with our true selves. Through love we can do miracles.
To find love, however, we must surrender to love, knowing that our partners are a reflection of ourselves and we are both capable of the most deeper, more sentimental, and intoxicating of loves – if we choose to see things this way. But first things first …
WHAT IS THE LOVE OF ALL WAYS?
The love of the word "today is unclear. It stands therefore still can mean so little. Other ages and cultures were more clear, what suggesting that they were more thoughtful and respectful about it. The ancient Greeks, for example, had many different words for love, which describes its various forms and how everyone feels like Eros (passion and sensuality), Philo (love between friends), and agape (love of God, or, in general, kindness and compassion show everyone when we recognize them as divine beings and special, like us).
For Rumi, any (and all) of these forms of love is a gateway link through which we happened to meet God. When we love and be loved by another, our perceptions change and things become brighter, clear and more meaningful. We see the world as it really is: alive, intelligent and benign. Even a gesture of our lovers can leave faint in the sense of the sacred. We woke up with the world and through this awakening, we realize that each and all things are part of an individual consciousness: We are One – and, more remarkable still: We are all God.
The problem for modern relationships is the rhythm of life. We have no time to reflect on the love, to fully, or even to be in the company of our fans as much as we would like. We always wanted elsewhere. In addition, in the modern era, are all consumers and consumed. As consumers of a style fast food of life, we have come to expect instant answers and gratification, to be simply "in love and lovers of our feeling the same.
confusion arising from this love for love, despite the back which makes it look so easy, it's never that simple. It requires us to look more deeply at least not to us ourselves and our lovers, who have been gifted by God for our mutual spiritual progress, and approach them with expectations only to be met.
If we accept the love this way, we will learn from it and grow, and if we have demands and expectations, however, be disappointed and the rejection of experience and the pain when love is not go our way. These feelings then click our deepest wounds and drive defensively and conflict – opposite of love in any form.
To avoid this, we must be clear on what "love" means to us, because when we know what we want there is less room for misunderstanding. We must also be willing to explore and release our feelings of rejection if and when they arise. Thus, we get rid of so much harm in the future – and in the words of Rumi – "not revisit the past" because "this brief moment should not be" wasted.
How can we be more loving?
Intimate relationships are our universities the heart. They find challenges and blessings, ecstasy and pain, and realize that our fans are our mirrors and are reflected in her eyes. If there is conflict our relationships is because we ourselves are in conflict, if there is joy and satisfaction is because we have found peace within ourselves.
Love looks balance, stability, and a subtle depth. For it to evolve positively, it is not necessary, therefore, to force things in our relationships or to worry we are not doing enough or being as loving as we could, it is only necessary as a first step, to do no harm. This is the first principle of love and Rumi urges us to use to find your balance:
If you're like the wind, sometimes hot, sometimes cold
Find the place within you where the heat and the cold more
Then love can evolve naturally towards perfection.
In the Sufi tradition, life is a mystery and we can not know their secrets, but there is no logic in the universe beyond our understanding and things develop as they should to help us learn, heal and love. We are all so perfect as we can at this particular time.
The relationship you have now, therefore, is perfect for who you are at this moment because we still have more to learn from it. But that does not mean you or your lover can not be more perfect yet! Every second that passes brings change, the possibility of healing, new ideas and new ways of being. Perfection is not an absolute, but a process of evolution. "In seeking perfection", Rumi reminds us, "because God is that we become. "As we become more loving, we attract more love to us.
All relationships – even the most successful – is part of this evolutionary process, which gives us the opportunity to practice our love, to open our hearts, create and perfect at the moment. If we are wise we will learn to love it and this will allow us to better understand ourselves and move forward.
To do this, we must look at ourselves, what motivates us or holds the back, and where we should put more of our attention so that balance and everything. When we are perfect beings, perfection can not prevent the flow to us. Rumi's advice, then, is simple:
Keep company with the Saints
And you will become a saint!
And when perfection seems difficult to achieve?
It is difficult, when our hearts are broken and we are sad in the world, to feel that such perfection exists or can be found, or that we can trust enough to give themselves completely to another. It is our challenge to do so. We must be the "Spiritual Warriors" Rumi implores us to be, and not give in to despair in our "failures" because they are opportunities, too, for learning and growth.
Come, come, whoever you are!
Wanderer, idolater, fire-worshiper,
Although come to have broken a hundred times!
Come, and back,
Ours is not a caravan of despair!
The working relationships because of the openness, vulnerability, and a desire for love, no matter what. When we approach our fans with a bitter heart or the sadness and fear in our souls, that's what we bring to them and what our relationship becomes: "I run to you because I have fear of myself. Please do not give me back to myself! "
No relationship can "save" the problems we bring to it. Instead, magnify them and see what you need be cured and given a chance. If we find it difficult to love, for example, then it will be equally hard for the love that we are, and this will be essential for all relationships we have until we decide it is healed. Our relationships reveal these truths, and this is a gift from your lover.
It clings to the hope and expectations – The 'what might have beens "- that causes us pain we absorb the relationships that have failed. When we learn of them and let go, however, our pain is released and we can greet the new lovers of wisdom, dignity and respect for ourselves and for them.
It is a simple law of the universe that surrounds us in times of sorrow: Love seeks balance, and our pain now is the same as the joy to come. We are confident that the will and allow yourself to be blessed because, as the Maestro of Love reminds us: "Peace always walks around with problems."
What is important, then, is to identify the unresolved issues in our hearts. In this we find freedom, not shame. By understanding our sorrows and fears that we and our lovers can find creative solutions for the love can flow once again. Knowing our answers, we can navigate our relationships so that, one step at a time, to give more of ourselves and open our hearts love.
The person we are always learning to love ourselves. When we understand this, your partner becomes an ally to help us reconnect with our souls for what is hidden becomes visible to us.
The mirror of my soul is your face, my love;
You be my perfect reflecting
What, then, are our BLOCKS TO LOVE?
There is a conflict in every human soul between what we know to be true and what we teach is true. What every newly born knows in his happiness, state of being is the reality of love, which is taught by life is fear. All training will more in the second than to love and recognize others! Through our conditioning, we become experts in retaining confidence.
Fear shuts us and, since the world we perceive is that, once you close ourselves off from love, fear is all we know, because that is all we see. To change this we must be brave in love, so that through our example, those around us can also awaken to the truth. By acting from love – no matter what – we create a more loving, free from the constraints we have known.
"Leap into the fires of love," writes Rumi.
When you know the ecstasy
Can not live without the flames
We must embrace the love and let it flow – without fear, with passion, without compromise – and the path to the freedom of our souls. The path of the heart is one that we walk now.
The time to stay home over.
It is time that went into the garden,
For the sun has risen on a new day of happiness
Our day of vision and unity
About the Author
Ross Heaven is the author of Love is Simple Truths: Meditations on Rumi and The Path Heart, which is available at www.amazon.com and www.amazon.co.uk, and The Way of the Lover: Rumi and the spiritual art of love. He is a therapist, healer and counselor, and organizes workshops on the themes of his books. His website is www.thefourgates.com.
About the Author
Ross Heaven is a therapist, workshop leader, and the author of several books on shamanism and healing, including Darkness Visible, the best-selling Plant Spirit Shamanism, and Love’s Simple Truths. His website is http://www.thefourgates.com where you can also read how to join his sacred journeys to the shamans and healers of the Amazon.